What is Success? Is it good for you? Really? – part 2

The Feminine model for Success = collaboration (vs. domination or competition)

So many of us are still operating under the “I have to do it all on my own!!!” (“in competition with the ‘Other’”) mentality, which is old-school, outdated, and “so last-paradigm!”

My friend Beth Allen (http://meetbethallen.com) writes about the power of tribe syndication (Click here to see her article) – a type of online collaboration, when a group of people/women come together to promote one another, with these benefits:

  • each woman within the group becomes known as a resource of amazing information/events/ideas
  • each woman’s information/events/ideas gets spread far beyond their own network – possibly to thousands of people they would otherwise be able to reach

Create your Tribe:

1) Find other practitioners with skills that compliment yours and create events, workshops, interviews together!

2) Create a marketing plan together where each woman commits to who/how/when she will promote each woman in her syndication “tribe”


The Feminine model of Leadership = staying connected to your intuition and to your truth

The feminine model of leadership (and therefore success) is one of collaboration and staying connected to our deepest Truth.

My friend and collaborator Melissa Hall (http://melissahallcoaching.com/femvolution) says, “I am committed to supporting growing leaders to step into their radiance and to be the light that guides those that are still struggling in the dark. Radiant Leadership appears when people unabashedly share their full selves with the world in the way that most inspires them and that is in alignment with who they are at their core…We are attracted to these ideas for a reason because there is a global movement happening. The Divine Feminine is finding its roots again on our planet and we have the special opportunity to be participants in this shift. It is likely going to look and feel different for each of us.”

She talks about women being in roles of leadership AND staying connected to our radiance. I would add to that: staying connected to our children and communities and our bodies…

here are the basic guidlines which will be the sign-posts that your are in the flow with the Feminine Model for Success

  • Honor family/date night time (phones and computers off…)
  • honor your cycle – may sound woo-woo, but make a commitment to take at least 1-day per month off – esp. during your monthly cycle. Don;t have a monthly cycle? Your body still cycles every month at any age, pick a day and give yourself a break!
  • Make regular dates with members of your community (potential collaborators, client referrers, and clients) you want to know better. Stay connected! I have watched countless women lose touch with her communities while growing her business — staying IN touch is the MOST important part of growing your biz! Even, when you are reaching beyond your social circles.
  • Find other practitioners with skills that compliment yours and create events, workshops, interviews together (see more about this below)
  • Always take time to exercise, preferably, group exercise where you can meet other people you might not otherwise.


Don’t miss the new wave of successful and family-minded women in business! Let’s link arms and move forward together

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