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		<title>Desconsos Part 5: &#8220;be holy, be wild, be irreverent&#8230;&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 21:38:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[...In my messiness I have caused people I love a lot of pain. The ones who didn’t understand how necessary it was for my soul-growth to get messy, got hurt. Some of my messiness was conscious, some unconscious. The unconscious messiness hurt me too.
Some of the exploration was conscious: a purposeful delving into the shadow side of relating and... <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/desconsos-part-5-be-holy-be-wild-be-irreverent/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Desconsos Part 4: As long as women play Dumb</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 21:34:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[...I have spent so much of my attention on making sure that I am perceived and evaluated and assessed as smart, well spoken - which leads to a, probably annoying, carefulness about the way I sometimes interact with the world and with you. All while my inner ditz plays dumb.

As long as women play dumb &#038; small - I imagine the world will continue to treat us/me that way... <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/desconsos-part-4-as-long-as-women-play-dumb/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Descansos Part 2: Weather or Not to be Bitter</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 21:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[- On one road I live the rest of my life partner-less, childless, battling my anger, trying to make it go away, loathing myself - pretending to not be bitter...

- On the other road I have my anger (it does not have me)I harness the power of my emotions to fuel my passion, creativity and who I Be -  and I allow partnership and children into my colorful and love-filled, passion-filled life.

A new possibility for myself... <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/descansos-2/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mamma Dragon</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 21:41:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is as if I resolved to myself “I will stand here and take this, Mother. But know that I am now creating something inestimably more fierce and horrible than you could ever be.” <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/mamma-dragon-1/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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