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		<title>Desconsos Part 5: &#8220;be holy, be wild, be irreverent&#8230;&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 21:38:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[...In my messiness I have caused people I love a lot of pain. The ones who didn’t understand how necessary it was for my soul-growth to get messy, got hurt. Some of my messiness was conscious, some unconscious. The unconscious messiness hurt me too.
Some of the exploration was conscious: a purposeful delving into the shadow side of relating and... <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/desconsos-part-5-be-holy-be-wild-be-irreverent/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Desconsos Part 4: As long as women play Dumb</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 21:34:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[...I have spent so much of my attention on making sure that I am perceived and evaluated and assessed as smart, well spoken - which leads to a, probably annoying, carefulness about the way I sometimes interact with the world and with you. All while my inner ditz plays dumb.

As long as women play dumb &#038; small - I imagine the world will continue to treat us/me that way... <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/desconsos-part-4-as-long-as-women-play-dumb/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Desconsos Part 3: Take a Chance&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:28:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[glorious]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[“...one learns that we need not fear (these) initiations, these times of breaking apart. The soul cannot grow or change without them. What the human ego or the human body experience as traumas, the soul instantly recognizes as opportunities to shed what is no longer needed. When the heart is broken, the soul is released from its prior constellations. It begins the ancient process of dissolution, dismemberment, and new life. The soul rushes toward rebirth...”

Kimberley Patton <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/desconsos-part-3-take-a-chance/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Descansos Part 2: Weather or Not to be Bitter</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 21:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://jessicahadari.com/blog/?p=103</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[- On one road I live the rest of my life partner-less, childless, battling my anger, trying to make it go away, loathing myself - pretending to not be bitter...

- On the other road I have my anger (it does not have me)I harness the power of my emotions to fuel my passion, creativity and who I Be -  and I allow partnership and children into my colorful and love-filled, passion-filled life.

A new possibility for myself... <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/descansos-2/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Descansos Part 1:  Marking the Small &amp; Big Deaths</title>
		<link>http://jessicahadari.com/blog/descansos-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 21:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Hadari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this process I took the time (several weeks, in this case) to look at the timeline of my life birth to now and mark where the small deaths and big deaths have taken place; All of the moments in my life where I experienced impact;

Or loss;

Or where there was a fork in the road and I took one path, when I could have taken another;

Or where I experienced an event which changed the way I thought/believed about myself, the world, about men, about women... <a href="http://jessicahadari.com/blog/descansos-1/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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